Never let bad break ruin your chances at love
One of the reasons some people find love with difficulty is because of the mistake of not differentiating their experiences from their true self.
So, they go into a relationship with the baggage of the past not healing from/finding closure to it.
For instance, a lady who was duped by her ex-boyfriend is likely to look at the next one with much suspicion and may even put up so many checks that the man becomes very uncomfortable around her.
The one thing I always emphasize is, KNOW who you are. When you know who you are, it will give clarity to where you are headed and even when obstacles come your way (and they will), you can defeat them without losing the real you.
Let’s look at it this way, if the real you is kind, even when you meet people who take your kindness for granted, you won’t change and become wicked. You can only become more conscious of who you let into your space, but you won’t lose your kindness.
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Do not treat others badly because of some other person’s actions.
By all means evaluate every situation, look at it objectively, take corrections, make necessary adjustments, grow and be open to something new.
When you are in a relationship or marriage, shake off the baggage and be ready to embrace newness . Allow your spouse or partner connect to the real you.
Nobody loves excess luggage so drop off the weight, train yourself to always express positivity and never let any circumstance drain out your personality
Hold on to this; YOUR BAD EXPERIENCES SHOULD NEVER DEFINE YOU.
We say we need a great nation.
Let’s play our part one step at a time.