Special package hardly works without consent
Back in the days 95 per cent of men who had extramarital affairs planned every move of it. They knew exactly what they were doing and did it anyways. Today the story is different a lady could plan every move on an unsuspecting man just to make him fall for her thanks to the new ideology “special package”(using supernatural or other extra means to get/keep a man)?
One thing is certain though,no one can get you with any “special package” without you giving access whether knowingly or unknowingly (this works for both men and women) because people can only get as much access as you permit
For instance a married man keeping another woman as a best friend is obviously being careless. As the man you may be perfect in character and have high moral standards but what about the lady who you are always there for, who you always hang out with, who you literally tell about your life, doesn’t she have emotions? Is she as perfect in character as you are? We have seen men and women who in the way they address their colleagues (of the opposite sex) act flirtatious and send the wrong vibes and with our present society not bothered about the santity / sacredness of a union, we know how the story usually ends.
Everyone of us must take up the responsibility to defend our marriages/relationships if we truly value it.
Know the purpose of your relationship with the opposite sex and ensure not to cross the line because as we often hear , when purpose is not known abuse is inevitable. Love, respect, communicate, pay attention and pray always for your spouse/partner. Learn to make your home what it is a HOME. Although we cannot justify cheating, it is always better to play your part in making the home warming enough not that this can actually keep someone who is determined to cheat from cheating but that you will never have to wonder if the mistake made was your fault.
If our nation will be a better place, we must play our parts and it starts from the values we uphold in our homes.
God bless us all